2009/06/01 New York
Since 1997
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Tonight I went with my godson and his mother to Sant Ambroeus. Over dinner I said to my godson: “Your mother and I have been coming to this place since 1997.”
He was more interested in his pasta than in the history of Sant Ambroeus.
On the plane from Paris to New York he said to me: “I’d like to see some women naked.”
Then he asked me: “Who are the women you want to see naked?”
I asked his mother: “Do you know about this?”
“No,” she said. “This is the first time I hear this.”
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Seems perfectly normal to me, I wouldn't discuss naked women spoting with my mother either...
One into jumping to conclusions might add that your influence could possibly impact the cute kid...
Indeed naked women have much in common with onions...
A young explorer! Tell him he should become a doctor (nudge nudge wink wink).
Such a request needs careful attendance. Maybe you can take Mayu and Marianne with you to a nudistcamp.
See it as a nice opportunity to introduce him to this little corner of the world where people are freed from pressure and status of society.
My sister studies psychology and is now working on a thesis about sexual education with adolescents. Recently she told me that she interviewed a boy who started masturbating on the age of 6. I do not know how old your godson is but he seems to have passed that stage already (or he is tired of it).
Victor
That's absolutely nothing unusual. Just talk to some kindergarten/nusery teachers and they will tell you that children start masturbating at a very early age. Girls, for example, often rub against chairs or press pillows between their legs.
Mr. Anderson
It has soft round shapes, it's shell has been taken of so you can see the pale and shiny tone of the meat it shelters. And then the smell... ;)
Calisha
Or, what is under a woman's skirt , make you weep.
Juliane B
I knew that children like to play with their body but the boy my sister told about said he was well aware of his masturbating and tried to reach orgasms. Or is this a usual hobby for 6 year olds? In that case I was a pretty boring six year old.
what did you answer him, arnon?
To Arnon Grunberg
Did the qualities of Margulies' book stop convincing you?
Trixi
I gave him the names of the women I would like to see naked.
arnon
you really make me laugh!
sehr schlagfertig! ich will auch wissen welche frauen sie gerne nackt sehen wuerden! nur eine... okay?
Pjötr
The proper page to ask this question would have been:
http://www.arnongrunberg.com/announcement/256Anyhow, Margulie's book seemed to me important in 2007. Now more than two years later the the urgency of this book seemed to have waned slightly.
I reached the conclusion that subsidizing a new Dutch translation of Kleist was more important.
Trixi
Please, don't take this personal, but I don't want to see you naked.
Indeed naked women have much in common with onions
Nicholas
They both make you cry?
Arnon
That's way I shouldn't show naked women to your godson.
arnon
again you make me laugh, i appreciate that on a day like this...
i'm not taking it personal at all! ...but how can you say you don't want to see someone naked if you don't know the person? or do you think we know each other?
@Victor D
By the way, I started masturbating for (and discovered) an orgasm, around the age of four, maybe three.
And, the gender most interested in those activities and who took the most initiatives of exploration, around that age, were the girls (of course later, on entering adolescences, most of those girls remembered nothing about their earlier explorations – they were already neatly adapted to society’s expectations; I think).
arnon
i don't want you to see me naked! my body is far away from ... let's say... attractivity. but beauty is something very different, right? jemand der mein inneres liebt oder schoen findet, wird auch mein aeusseres schoen finden.
blablabla
is the wheather in NY as nice as it is in amsterdam?
Said the rooster to his rooster friend: "Come let's go to the poulterer, watch naked women"