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Capricious

Today I reread parts of “Madame Bovary”: “Emma was growing difficult, capricious. She ordered dishes for herself, then she did not touch them; one day drank only pure milk, the next cups of tea by the dozen. Often she persisted in not going out, then, stifling, threw open the windows and put on light dresses. After she had well scolded her servant she gave her presents or sent her out to see neighbors, just as she sometimes threw beggars all the silver in her purse, although she was by no means tender-hearted or easily accessible to the feelings of others, like most country-bred people, who always retain in their souls something of the horny hardness of the paternal hands.”

Every long lasting relationship breeds an Emma Bovary -- if not in our partners then in ourselves.


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dear arnon
even though it appears to be very sentential, your final judgement could use some moderation: perhaps a long lasting relationship just brings up the emma bovary within ourselves, should there be one lurking in the dark. but only in case it is so unhappy that it makes one become neurotic
Books
That's just because of th'm damn books.
Thank God at least men always stay as perfect as they were in a relationship.
Actually, that was a stupid thing to say. Apologies - I was stung by a bee this morning and I am still spinning. Hit, more like it.
Tabatha
Take a long walk, try to see at least one humming bird, smell one wild lavender and roll yourself in a rather fresh track of a dear, the pain of the bee sting will be soon forgotten.
Yes, we have to keep on amusing our friends and ourselves.