2009/09/17 Amsterdam
Salvation
Intimate contact
In today’s Herald Tribune David Brooks writes: ‘On the day the Nazi regime fell, Hal Boyle of The Associated Press reported from the front lines, “The victory over Germany finds the average American soldier curiously unexcited. There is little exuberance, little enthusiasm and almost none of the whoop-it-up spirit with which hundreds of thousands of men looked forward to this event a year ago.”
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A different ethos came to the fore, which the sociologists call “expressive individualism.” Instead of being humble before God and history, moral salvation could be found through intimate contact with oneself and by exposing the beauty, the power and the divinity within.’
I’m afraid there is not much difference between intimate contact with oneself and intimate contact with God.
Both types of contact are the basis of self-righteousness.
The last couple of days too many of my students and readers told me: “It feels good, so it must be good.”
Or: “I don’t do this, so this type of behavior cannot be normal.”
16 comments
What about intimate contact with other people? Does the “feels good” principle apply there?
Sasja
It feels good to hurt you.
Arnon
How intimate is the hurting?
Arnon
These students and readers seem to engage in a rather shallow form of motivated reasoning.
Arnon
You don't like to be bitten, but you are fond of hurting others? That's a bit selfish, isn't it?
Or do you hurt Sasja to fulfil what you think are her own wishes? In this case I'd like to know if you always try to comply with others' yearnings.
Juliane
I'm not sure how serious your comment is, so just in case: Arnon doesn't hurt me. He was just making his point .:)
Photos
A little off the topic: I put some foto's from Café Kiev on my blog.
No party
Mostof the soldiers, certainly the combattroops, were exhausted after a year of fighting, had lost many of their friends, they had seen a tremendous amount of death, destruction and horror and were just glad to be alive.
Not the right circumstances for a good party.
Sasja
"Arnon doesn't hurt me. He was just making his point ."
I took that into consideration. :)
Mr. Grunberg
Are you, of all people, becoming a moralist? Did you impregnate somebody?
selfrighteousness
Ik snap de hint naar de 'selfrighteous readers', maar daar ligt dus juist het 'werkveld' en ik blijf hoopvol gestemd over de invloed van goed geschreven boeken. Een klein beetje twijfel moet er toch zijn gezaaid en daar ga ik kruiwagens mest op gooien.
Joke
I enjoyed participating in your reading club. Thanks for having me. Some of the answers of the ladies surprised me, but that's healthy I guess.
All best.
Hordijk
I have always been a moralist, albeit an ambiguous one. Moral is an ambiguous subject after all.
Cafe Kiev
When I look at the photo's of Cafe Kiev: what is it with dutch nerds and slavian women? I'm afraid they are all gonna breed and make a new superpeople race who will reign the alcoholistic slavian and dutch workingclass in about twenty years.
Careca
You have all the reasons to be afraid. We will rule!!! (I just have to sort out the breeding part)
the trick
Thats for sure, and last of all the dutch nerds dont stand a chance against the slavian women: they/you will raise and lead the superrace and leave out the dutch fathers. But first you need their genes, I expect that you already have a trick that will use the dutch nerds their genius and their naivity, please inform us, I mean the readers of this weblog (we, you know not being nerds but with a lot of nerd's qualities)