2009/09/28 Amsterdam
Herring salad
Exception
My father never went to synagogue. He made an exception for my bar mitzvah, but he must have suffered a lot. He did fast on the Day of Atonement. He explained to us that he did so out of solidarity with the rest of his family.
As a child I had to fast only half a day. I remember eating herring salad in our garden on the Day of Atonement.
6 comments
Arnon
Do you still fast on the day of atonement? Is that why you had the herring yesterday?
Mieke
For the sake of my mother I won't aswer this question. And no, no connection to yesterday's herring.
As a child I loved to go to church on Easter and Christmas with our neighbours who used to look after me in the afternoon and evening when I was still in kindergarten. My parents didn't like it, though, and it would've been a great struggle if I had decided to get baptized. These neighbours seemed to be wealthier than my family because the owned a house and a garden big enough to keep chickens, bunnies and a cat going by the wonderful name of "Castillo". I thought that wealth necessarily correlates with religion for quite some time since all my Protestant classmates lived in houses.
Arnon
Do you remember other ingredients of the herring salad you ate in your childhood?
I bet
that's why you are so proficient at some special techniques. Lol. American boys are allowed to go without exotic flavors and textures in their growing up. It is , I think , a kind of retardation. But I don't think I am supposed to use the word anymore. Is it true that you can't smoke in bars Europe? Another illusion, another aspiration, gone. I miss you.
Kandy
Do we know each other?