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I was about to leave Dublin, and I was hesitating what to do with the May 17 issue of The New Yorker. I had carried a copy of the magazine for ten days in my bag without reading a single sentence. Probably it was better to not take the magazine back to my apartment in New York. But then my eye fell on the first sentences of the story “Free Fruit for Young Widows” by Nathan Englander. And I decided to read the story on the plane.
“Free Fruit for Young Widows” is something between a short story and a morality tale. The story is well written and worth reading, but the morality of the tale disturbed me a bit: we cannot expect mercy from people who have never known mercy in their lives.
Well, yes.
Christianity says: somebody has to start with mercy.
Perhaps it is wise to live according to this law: show me your mercy and I’ll show you mine.
But I’m not sure if it is morally uplifting as well.
Forgiving is not the same thing as explaining. You can explain without forgiving. You can forgive without explaining.


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to not take...?
not to take...?
The first sentences don't do it for me at all.
How many subscriptions on the New Yorker do you have? One in every home?
There is always a context.
Dens
One.
Mieke
That’s undoubtedly true, and sometimes we need to be reminded of the context, but the point is a bit trite.
Mercy
The story is well written and thus moving, even though it's in fact a
metaphor, about mercy and it's opposite. So we have two archetypes,
the one the embodiment of humanism and mercy, the other a
spiritually maimed creature, whose mercilessness is to be blamed on
his cruel fate which reduced his humanity to the mere drive of
survival. But the metaphor is in some way biased, because if the
merciful is depicted in his daily life, the other in only presented
in extreme conditions, perhaps is he besides a loving husband, a
kind teacher. It seems like if the merciful has reduced the other's
personality to get a definitive answer on the questions raised by
their first confrontation. No doubt that mercy is a human and
Jewish ideal, but is it really desirable to apply it
indiscriminatingly? the sages of the Talmud state that who shows
mercy to the cruel will become cruel towards whose who deserve
mercy. It's never easy or clear-cut how to decide when to show
mercy or not, but something is clear : to be merely able to
exercise one tendency demonstrate a lack of "daath". the word is
currently translated as knowledge, but in fact it mean the capacity
to bind the emotions and the natural tendencies with the rational
understanding. So who can say that the perception of the professor
in this case wasn't more adequate (ask Andy MacNab). Perhaps is the
disabled one the other, whose indiscriminate mercy may bring as
well good deeds as disaster.
In A Guest In My Own Country – a very interesting book on the above subject - , György Konrad describes, for example, how a vicious act of treason by an enemy made him and his sister escape the holocaust.
Besides disturbing, it seems a lie beleving that there are people walking around who have NEVER experienced a single act of mercy.
Mike
Thanks for this analysis.
But in my reading the bias in the morality of this story is somewhere else.
The acts of the professor are explained by the cruelties done to him by the Nazi’s and especially by his Polish “friends”.
There is no connection between the Polish peasants and the Egyptian soldiers eating their lunch other than the professor himself.
The story tells us that we must forgive the professor because of all the suffering he endured.
This is the old and trite excuse for all aggression: suffering.
Arnon
You are right that the use of suffering to justify violence is perverse, it undermine the very notions of right and wrong, but this is only the rationalization made by the mercifull one. Of course if he embodies the ideology of the writer, it says something about a certain (relativist) humanism.