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Tomorrow more about the book festival in Moscow, but now for something completely different: Eliane Engeler writes in the Tricity Herald about the trial against Cecile Brossard in Geneva.
'A woman charged with the murder of one of France's richest men during sex games begged his family's forgiveness Wednesday at the start of her trial in Switzerland.
Banker Edouard Stern was killed in 2005, his body found in his penthouse apartment in Geneva, clad in a latex suit and shot four times, authorities said.
His mistress Cecile Brossard, 40, was arrested two weeks later and confessed, according to Prosecutor Daniel Zappelli.
Brossard told Geneva's Court of Assizes that she was sorry. (…)
Brossard said Stern, 50, promised her $1 million to help her become financially independent, Zappelli said. Stern then deposited the sum in a special account for her, but the two quarreled over control of the money.
Brossard told the court, however, "It was not a question of money. It was a question of love."
Zappelli said that when the couple met for the last time they had "games of a sexual nature, consisting of her dominating him."
"Edouard Stern was sitting tied up on a chair in a submissive position," according to the prosecutor.
A police inspector told the court that Brossard had confessed to becoming enraged when Stern told her during their sexual games, "One million for a whore, that's expensive."
The prosecution says she then got one of Stern's guns and shot him once in the face, then in the chest and side. He fell to the floor, and she fired a fourth shot in the temple, killing him.
Brossard has been in prison since 2005.'
Of course it’s ridiculous to claim that a million is expensive for love, even when the love consists of nothing but sex games. But this doesn’t mean that Mr. Stern deserved to be killed.
It’s a warning to all of us: when you engage in a sex game, please be careful what you say.
35 comments
Well, at least there was no object stuck in his ass when he was found. That would have been embarrassing.
Apparently, some women really don't like to be treated like a prostitute. I can somehow relate to this woman's reaction, although I think I would have been too chicken to kill him.
I have completely lost my interest in Arab men, by the way.
(Even a prostitute should be treated with respect.)
For the amateurs: you can read Putain by Nelly Arcan, a Canadian novelist.
Bernard
I'm not sure if Mr. Stern was that disrespectful. What if he had said: "One million? That's nothing for a prostitute. It's a bargain."
Batta?
Who's next? Jewish men are great to have a crush on.
Are you still in Sudan? And you made me a little curious. What is your main field of interest? Your profession? Or am I probing now.
@Arnon
Yes, and we do not know all the circumstances.
But he apparently already used the pejorative word ‘whore’ and you and I use ‘prostitute’, for example.
"B."
The local press here in Switzerland insists on calling her "Cecile B." This habit becomes of course kind of pointless if one just has to pick up the international newspaper next to it in the rack to find out that the "B." stands for "Brossard."
Bernard, Arnon
That's what happens if you are roleplaying and the woman has the dominant part. If you try to humiliate her during the act, she becomes very agressive. I think it's a nice example of too much identification.
Bernard, Arnon
Even if sex is part of a transaction (and it usually is, whether the reward is money or something else), to make this transaction explicit during the act is like breaking the silent rules of the transaction. What if I had sex with someone out of pity, and while he is approaching his climax, I whisper in his ear "I'm only sleeping with you because I'm so sorry your father died"? I would say that is close to inhumane.
Batta
That's the easiest way to feel like a prostitute: to have sex with someone out of pity. I am not so sure your partner would object very much to that line of reasoning.
@Batta
I agree. And your reasoning can be valid in other branches of transactions too. For example, it is always inappropriate to say: This is a stupid job that will suit you well.
@Mieke
Yes. Stupid man. Should have known his position.
Pjotr
I am 1.72 m tall.
Where do you live?
the lady took care about one guy calling her whore.
now she will be way more busy dealing with few more calling her names.
not a good strategy.
Bernard
I think he was very aware of his position ,more, he liked it so much that he even wanted to goad her more.
To Batta
I spend my time between Antwerp and a suburb of Brussels.
Does this help you in answering the foregoing question?
On a sidenote, I am not sure how tall how I am.
On failing
"That's the easiest way to feel like a prostitute: to have sex with someone out of pity."
I fail to see the analogy. In my perception of prostitution sex workers can't choose their clients.
Nuanced
Or it seems to me that sexworkers don't pick out their own clients.
Ms. Brossard has the heavy burden of proof that Mr. Stern actually said what she claims he said.
I wonder if she tried to get to the money on the special account in the two weeks time she had to construct her story.
Pjötr
Pity is not a good motivation to have sex with someone, you feel easily abused. My own experience.
Abused is a little to strong, used is a better description.
Pjotr
In order to find happiness, I would advize you to leave that place immediately.
Mieke
What is a good motivation to have sex with someone?
Mieke,
If pity isn't a good motivation to have sex with someone
what then do you consider as a good motivation?
To Batta
If all goes well I'm moving to Austria in two years time.
Are you supportive of this idea?
Batta, Vera
What about the good old 'lust'?
Batta
There is a difference between prostitution and a mercy fuck. If you don't know this difference I urge you to improve your sex life.
Pjotr
Did I not use the word "immediately"?
Today I had a sandwich at place called Kookie Burger. Without any exception, every single item on the menu was misspelled. For some reason, it made me very happy. Maybe you, too, will find happiness at Kookie Burger.
Arnon
I believe is was Mieke, not me, who equated the two.
Nontheless, your advice to improve my sex life is grounded. My current environment doesn't provide much opportunity for impovement, but I intend to work on it after I leave this place.
To Batta
I truly hope that you don't take it ill of me that my I see myself obliged to postpone my personal satisfaction.
You will understand that this website is not an appropriate place to dwell on personal inconveniences.
I fear that Austria has yet to discover 'Kookie Burger'.
In two years I hope you will still be around to give me further directions.
Will you?
Rectification
I truly hope that you don't take it ill of me that I see myself obliged to postpone my personal satisfaction.
You will understand that this website is not an appropriate place to dwell on personal inconveniences, preventing me to follow up your suggestion
I fear that Austria has yet to discover 'Kookie Burger'. As do Antwerp and that as of yet unknown suburb of the Belgian capital.
In two years I hope you will still be around to give me further directions.
Will you?
Pjotr
I am afraid you are a lost case.
To Batta
On intuitive grounds I agree with your conclusion, but dare I ask what brought you to it?
Can you see yourself - on occasion perhaps - sympathising with hopeless cases?
Jeanette
Thanks for informing us.

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