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Seduction

Last night I saw Stephen Frears’ movie “Chéri”, based on two novels by Colette. The movie tells the story of the love affair between an older woman, Léa, and a much younger man, nicknamed Chéri.
Complicating factor is that Léa is a courtesan, and Chéri is the son of one of Léa’s colleagues. Michelle Pfeiffer turns Léa into a cold-blooded woman, but I guess you have to be cold-blooded in order to survive as a courtesan. And as soon as the jealousy takes over the cold-bloodedness is gone.
According to the Times critic Manohla Dargis both Mr. Frears and Léa “are each in the business of seduction.” This may be true, but who isn’t in the business of seduction?

As Gov. Mark Sanford said to AP about his affair with his Argentine mistress: "This was a whole lot more than a simple affair, this was a love story. A forbidden one, a tragic one, but a love story at the end of the day."
And also: "Sanford said Chapur is his soul mate but he's trying to fall back in love with his wife.”

Both “Chéri” and Sanford prove that only unfulfilled love can be eternal.
And that some are better in the business than others.


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agree
Could not agree with you more. Unfulfilled love can be an eternal provider of melancholy. And some are better in dealing with that business than others.
Arnon
Hitting home!
Eternal?
About love: in my modest experience, I have only known long periods of craving for (or unfulfilled) love and short moments of intensely fulfilled love, separated by moments of indifference. Nothing eternal here.
Eternal is the craving for love and affection, but ,alas, seldom fulfilled. And in the mean time we train ourselves in ways of seduction, with only one goal: the granted love, while, growing old, our seductives gestures , sweet words, loose the gracefulness we possessed as a youngster.
Sanford called a meeting with his mistress in NY this winter "a failed attempt at a farewell meeting" ....

in this way 'eternal failure' seems very appealing
"die liebe hoeret nimmer auf"
diana
you are right!
Arnon
Wow this is the second time this week I dreamt about you and woke up in the night . I am not sure it's ok to write that here but after waking up I wanted to tell you.
Hille
Arnon comes to visit us in our dreams. That's one of his charms. Various people of this blog reported us the dreams they had about Arnon.
Mieke
Thank you for this information. Though it was a most pleasurable dream I do feel better now.
Hille
Just enjoy.