Arnon Grunberg

Narcissistic

Today

Today, my mother’s 88th birthday, was my first day of the embed with the psychiatric emergency services in the city of Rotterdam, The Netherlands.
The emergency services are specialized in so-called involuntary treatment; patients who refuse treatment but are considered a threat to themselves, to others, or to the safety of the public in general, can be forced to treatment for a period of three weeks.
The mayor usually follows the advice of the psychiatrist and a judge checks a few days later if the psychiatrist made a sound decision.
In a way the psychiatric emergency services reminded me of the army, both are busy winning hearts and minds, both have a hard time distinguishing between friends and enemies. But the self-awareness of the psychiatrist appears to be bigger. As one of them said: “The caregiver may have narcissistic problems. The moment a patient refuses his help he gets upset.”

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