And now something on jealousy and cuckoldry – read Bellow’s letter to Jack Ludwig:

“God knows I am not stainless faultless Bellow. I leave infinities on every side to be desired. But love her as my wife? Love you as my friend? I might as well have gone to work for Ringling Brothers and been shot out of the cannon twice a day. At least they would have let me wear a costume.
Coventry, pal, is not the place.”

Read the letter here.

Please, ask your wife or husband if cheating has become unavoidable to pick a stranger, not a good friend or the neighbor. Tell your significant other: “Please, cheat on me, but don’t do it with my friends.”

Another solution would be to not have friends.